HURT....

Why No Punishment To The One Who Has Broken Your Heart

Everyone of us is carrying a Broken Heart, Most of us has been cheated in Love. Strange is the Rule of this Love Game the one who cheats is the winner and the one who is loyal suffers all Life. For whom love was just a word moves out with smile and the one who was dedicated is left crying ! 

"He proposed me i said him yes, we exchanged numbers and then next few weeks we spent great time. Now he has found someone else and has forwarded my number to his friends.He has not only moved out but he has also ruined my life" this was written in a email that i received last week, she was expecting me to do something for her.. I replied her with some tips"Ignore the person who cheated you, you will only be happy if you move on.. every girl has a secret admirer, its time for you to search him and start living a new life."

 I am not sure if she will be able to do this, because even i tried it once in my life,"moving on" surely works during day but "i have been cheated" this feeling haunts in lonely night. Friends Love is the only cure for love but the problem is this that the one who injured can only be the doctor. This medicine of broken heart is available with everyone but this injury will not heal until you get this love drug from the one who stays deep in your heart.

Sometime after listening to these stories of broken relationship and cheating, i feel like raising voice to declare "breaking heart" as crime but then when i try to analyse that who is wrong and who is responsible i find they are no one else but we.yes we are the one who is responsible for our pain.. boys, don't we flirt with a girl who is already committed, if she agrees to leave his love for you will you not run away with her. Girls, don't you start giving positive signals to guy who is your friends boyfriend but interact with you most of the time. when we don't care for someone's heart why tomorrow someone will think about you !! 

I have concluded that nothing can be done as its human nature, your love is only secure if "Trust" is not the only factor controlling it there must be "insecurity" and "doubts". I know i am saying something that was never told but what has been told so far has helped no one. If someone has already left you before you read this article then for you i have a different suggestion.. i know you are still trying to get him/her back who has already moved on but have you ever thought if he/she comes back he/she will still break another heart ?? Please understand "Pain" and "Loneliness" is the last part of love, after eating fruit if only seeds are left, please don't cry holding them in hand. Plant them and begin a new life make them grow and they will become base of new relationship.

Why It's So Hard To Speak Out Love

Many of us has played role of "Secret Lovers" This Article Is Dedicated to that "Secret Lover" Inside You... I find one thing very strange about Expressing love, So easily we are able to say "I Love You" to a friend whom we actually don't love and we also say "I love U" to a stranger with whom we want to flirt but when this heart actually falls in love with someone we fear so much. Speaking "I Love U" to that  person becomes the most daring job in this World :'(

We start believing on language of eyes, we don't miss a single chance to catch a glans of her. We follow the person we love everywhere, at times we bunk lectures, lie friends and screw our daily schedule just to follow her and know everything that she does. If she eats a chocolate, that wrapper becomes our biggest assets, if she likes someone.. that someone is our worst enemy :)

This love makes us behave so stupid sometimes, we go to bed thinking about her and we start planing that what we will say to her when we meet next time "i know you must be having many friends as you are so pretty.. i too want to be your friend. By saying "yes" to my friendship you will just add another name to long list of your admirers but i will get my world !! i will get a reason to live, a reason to admire my life !!". All the plans that we make before sleep may work at times in our dreams but when she comes in front of us as a person we fail to try and Just watch her beautiful face.

Today i received a email written by her, she has sent me a poem to publish and she says " idea about this poem just popped into my head after looking at those guys in my university keep who looking at the girls they love but they never show it to those girls.."

Untold Love

Maybe he is thinking as the way i`m thinking 

Maybe he is looking at my eyes secretly 

Maybe he is waiting till i come

Maybe he is following my foot path 

Maybe he is dreaming to hold my hand

Maybe he is loving me more than I do

His eyes tell me about the untold story of his love

But why his words are still silent? 

After Reading these words, after reading this poem written by her i understood that what we "Secret Lovers" actually think is correct, Words of eyes are not actually flop it has managed to convey your message to your lovers heart. But lets not forget a rule of love, a girl will wait for life but she will never first approach you to speak out the feeling of your heart.. A boy is expected to propose first !!

Friends do you know why right girl always finds a wrong guy and why a true love suffers loneliness ?? you will get the answer just by keeping 3 points together from this article.

1>  ...So easily we are able to say "I Love You" to a friend whom we actually don't love and we also say "I love U" to a stranger with whom we want to flirt...

So a boy who manage to proposes a girl is not actually in love with her.

2> ...a girl will wait for life but she will never first approach you to speak out the feeling of your heart.. A boy is expected to propose first !!...

The one who loved did not propose so the girl will say "Yes" to one of them who proposed her .

3> ...if she likes someone.. that someone is our worst enemy...

A true lover fails to express his love but continue to hate the one the girl is with.

Thus i will like to end this article suggesting all the "Secret Lovers" to Unfold the secret before she finds her wrong man !! Yes, i know its difficult to express love in front of her too where you expect 100% chance of "Yes" but i also know its more then difficult to see your love in arms of someone else.

Why Love Fades Away With Time ?

Why Love Fades Away With Time ?

Its Just Another Similar True Love Story

That Ends With Tears :'(

In September, 2008, I had fell in love with a girl... this girl was so down to earth, fun to be with, adorable, caring, and the list goes on... let's just say it was everything I could wish for. Thankfully, she had felt the same for me, on November 5th, 2008, we officially started dating. For the next 2 years, our love developed rapidly and deeply, it had seem to us that we were married. There was nothing that we cannot tell each other, nothing that we cannot do together, I felt like I was in heaven.

Unfortunately, things had started to change, there were signs of her losing feelings...I've tried so hard to recover the lost love she had for me...but no matter how hard I tried, things would only seem to go downhill. Early July, 2010, I confronted her about the problems I've been noticing and her behavior towards me nowadays... and indeed, she had finally admitted that she had lost feelings for me. The reason? Because it's been too long. It never occured to me that being in love with someone so much, the feelings could simply dissolve because of time. We officially broke up after that conversation. 

I remember it was month of July and it was raining heavily outside i moved out with my umbrella making my heart understand the truth and the truth was, that she no longer loves me and she was no more mine, after walking a little distance i wonder how a drop of tear rolled down my eyes. i started smiling to fool myself that the tears are fake.. i am actually not sad.. i looked towards other people, everyone was happy only i was the one who was finding no reasons to smile.. i felt like a clown and the pain inside my heart erupted out in the form of tears.. this time i failed to stop them and everyone who was crossing me was looking towards me with pity.. I have let the wind blow away my umbrella and allowed the rain water to fall on my face and wash away all my tears.. I cried in rain so that my tears are drained and no one can predict that my heart is broken, no one can understand my pain....

I never blamed her for breaking up like that, because she had simply followed what her heart told her, perhaps it was something I did that made her start loosing feelings. Whatever it may be, it wasn't her fault.

For the next 2 months, I still tried my best to recover her, perhaps finding a way to erupt her feelings again. I tried and tried...because I valued this relationship more than living itself. And in the end, I was rejected countless times..now it seems as if I cannot even be her friend. It really hurts...and to this day, 1 year 4 months after breaking up, I'm still hurt...I still constantly think about her. Could someone tell me why?

When we were together for the 2 years, I felt so good, so inspired by life itself, I enjoyed everything I could possibly do/get. I had realized that without that love, I feel so empty. Whenever I listen to the music I used to listen to and do the things I used to do, I feel as though something's missing, I do not know what, but it's like I'm just a shell now. It's back to the days of life before April 2013, the days of solitude...